The crazy things that change in how you can see the holidays at this point in your life.  Ladies… It’s okay, once you reach this point, to make it clear that you really don’t like that gift and cry about how no one knows you.  
Just remember…. You can only get away with it for a few years before they realise you are using hormones to just be.. well.. a B****.  And not in a fun, sort of, ‘that word doesn’t hurt me’ sort of way.